Have you ever looked at your career and wondered, “I should be grateful—so why do I feel so empty?”

You’ve done everything right: the degrees, the title, the steady income.
But inside, you feel drained.
Disengaged.
Disconnected.

That’s not just stress.
That’s misalignment burnout—a form of emotional and nervous system exhaustion that arises when your job no longer reflects who you are or what you value.

What Is Misalignment Burnout?

Unlike physical burnout from long hours or excessive workload, misalignment burnout occurs when your work looks great on paper but feels wrong in your soul. It’s success that no longer fits.

Signs of misalignment burnout:

You dread the workweek, even when your workload is “manageable”
You feel numb or cynical about tasks that once energized you
You think, “This isn’t who I am anymore”—but change feels overwhelming
You say things like, “I’ve come too far to quit” or “I should be grateful”

📊 A 2023 McKinsey study found that 1 in 3 employees feel disconnected from the purpose of their work.
Gallup reports that 80% of workers globally aren’t engaged.

That’s not just a workplace issue—it’s a purpose issue.
It’s your body and spirit asking for realignment.

My Journey Through Career Burnout

I’ve lived this.

At one point, I held a stable, well-established position in a corporate setting. I had financial security, professional credibility, and a respected position. But internally, something felt off. I found myself longing for something deeper—something more aligned with my evolving purpose.

At first, I brushed it off. I told myself I should be content. But over time, the disconnect started impacting my sleep, my focus, and my sense of self. Looking back, I now recognize what was happening: I was experiencing burnout rooted in misalignment.

I hadn’t failed. I had simply outgrown a version of success that no longer reflected who I was becoming.

Letting go of that role wasn’t about giving up—it was about realigning with clarity, integrity, and wellness. And it deepened my empathy as a leader, giving me tools to help others move through similar crossroads.

Realigning with Purpose: A Conversation with Brad Yates

To kick off Season 3 of Tapping into Emotional Freedom Podcast, I invited a trusted teacher and mentor—Brad Yates—to join me for a powerful conversation on this very topic.

Brad has helped millions reconnect with their inner clarity using Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT). In this episode, his insights felt both grounding and liberating.

“It’s like climbing the ladder of success only to realize it’s leaning against the wrong building.”
— Brad Yates

We talked about:

Why high-achievers often stay stuck in misaligned careers
How fear-based programming keeps us in the “known,” even when it’s unfulfilling
The myth that you must choose between purpose and prosperity
How EFT can help shift fear, reduce resistance, and invite clarity

Brad’s message was clear:

The universe doesn’t want you to suffer while sharing your gifts. You’re meant to be supported and fulfilled.

Tapping Through Burnout & Self-Sabotage

In the second half of our episode, Brad led us through a powerful EFT tapping session designed to ease resistance and support anyone navigating career misalignment.

If you’ve never tried tapping, this is a beautiful place to begin.

Here are a few of the powerful affirmations we tapped through:

“Even though I’m afraid to make a change, I choose to love and accept myself.”
“I’ve made big changes before—and I’ve always grown from them.”
“I choose to believe that the universe wants to support me.”

Whether you’re facing indecision, quiet discontent, or self-sabotage, this practice can help you reconnect with your truth—gently and safely.

Want to learn more about EFT Tapping?

Listen to the Full Episode

In this episode, you’ll receive:

A clear understanding of what career misalignment burnout feels like
A supportive conversation about change, fear, and clarity
A guided EFT session to help shift stuck energy
A reminder that you are not broken—and you are not alone

You’re Not Meant to Stay Stuck

If your job looks “good” on paper but no longer feels right in your heart—pay attention.
That tug you feel isn’t weakness. It’s wisdom.

You don’t need to make a giant leap.
But you can start exploring.
You can get curious.
You can begin tapping through fear and aligning with your next chapter.

Incorporating EFT Tapping is more than a stress relief tool—it’s a bridge back to your aligned self.
And it just might help you move from surviving... to thriving.

With compassion and purpose,
Elisa

Misalignment Burnout: When Your Job No Longer Feels Like You